Grace wanted a peanut butter and jelly sandwich for lunch the other day. So being the "pionner princess" that she is, she did it herself!
You are probably asking what is a "pioneer princess?" A while back Jason read a book called Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters by Dr. Meg Meeker. In one section in the book it talks about how to raise your daughter to be pioneer or a princess. Jason tells Grace she will always be his princess...but...she has to learn how to be a pioneer. So came the name for her at times...pioneer princess.
Here is a little excerpt from the book:
A princess expects everything to be handed to her and everything to be done for her, and who gives nothing in return. Her life is about her needs and wants. A pioneer woman relies on herself and knows that any improvement in her life is from her own hard work.
A princess is taught that she is the centre of the world – she needs constant affirmation, attention, and hand holding. “TAKE TAKE TAKE” is the motto of the princess. While a pioneer woman asks what she can ADD to the world. Her self-esteem and confidence are increased through her work ethic and success.
A princess, along with a huge sense of entitlement, blames others when she fails. She expects others to solve her problems and bail her out. Her behaviour is almost laughable at times. While the pioneer woman accepts responsibility and learns from her mistakes – her behaviour is constantly respected and admired.
“I need, I want, I have to have” are the regular songs playing in the head of the princess, while the pioneer woman sings a different song – “I have, I will, and I can”.
The pioneer woman isn’t easily swayed by peer pressure and is less interested in fads and trends. She is logical, ethical, and a problem solver. To a pioneer woman, a flat-tire is a problem that can be solved, while it spells catastrophe for the helpless princess – the damsel in distress – in constant need of rescuing.
She has made this a normal thing...and is pretty proud of herself!